Friends..

The past 2 weeks have been a real struggle as I had to fight with my conflicting mindset and my heartaches..basically, i actually let history repeats itself yet again.I felt that i really lost one of my best friend's trust yet again..

Well, the 1st time was after Os and I had a great friend in A(cannot reveal name).. We were more or less considered childhood friends, since we known each other since primary 2.We were always having fun every weekend playing soccer and stuff.And we were considered best gaming buddies as we usually help one another when we needed help.However, at that time i realised certain flaws in our friendship..He was a temperamental guy and he tends to ask me to help him all the time when he needs help in the game..like playing for him(sorry was really a nerd last time)I always gave in without complains as i dint want to lose a friend.But little did i know that the frustation was just accumulating inside me like the yellowstone ultra-volcano in the US waiting to explode..The day after Os was it..I decided to just tell him i wasnt helping him anymore cos i decided to leave my nerdy ways when i get into JClife.He was furious after that and we totally never communicated til like 2 years later?But even at that time,we told each other that we were both sorry for what happened Haha..but it wasnt the same anymore.there was this tremendous awkwardness and i think we just wanted to carry on in our lifes..


Now i cannot believe I actually let the same situation to strike me again -.-.But i guess this time it was more of my fault this time cos I was too sensitive all the time..i had been friends with her for 2 years plus now and to be true,i could trust her for anything cos we have few common frens.And i know that you trust me alot too..However, she had her own restrictions and I always fail to keep to my promise all the time i guess.(cannot reveal too much haha) I took her forgivings for granted and clearly this time i have pushed my limits too far.Moreover,I'm a very emotions based person and i am very rash in doing things.I'm really sorry for that.I need to stress on one point on my blog tho.I have always treat you as my friend and whatever u do to me, i just wish for you to be happy.:)




Nothing lasts forever
I'm sorry
I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late and
We can't go back
And it feels like you don't care anymore

Harry Potter and Obsessed.

hellooo.. Haha.i went to watch harry potter and the half blood prince on sat with my class buddies:) the movie is better den expected actually..budden the ending stiu sux.but its classic harry potter isn't it? In the movie,we could all c how much all the kids have grown up.harry isnt so shuai as b4 le!maybe thats cos that freddie guy who like emma watson outshone him..anw emma watson is cute and hot when shes all grown up.haha..heard she has a bf nw,a 25 yr old businessman.lol!oso,i duno y but i found ginny kinda cute.tho alot pp will disagree wif me.hahahaha..on the whole,i have to say i love the way dey introduce more humour into the show,especially the part when the ron was super smitten by a love potion and the part ron and harry tok about what dey look in the girls dey like.haha skin-.- i haven read the book tho and i tink i shud cos i heard the book is much better:) On sunday,i watched obsessed with a friend b4 booking in..haha sum1 said its a thriller,but apparently its nt.. nvr let me stand up de.haha.but at least the extent of the obsession was quite amusing and it had an interesting plot.If any1 was like lisa,i dun tink most guys cn withstand her suggestive acts..Love is an obsession anw.haha.gd nite!

The magic of love

Too much time in Mp le!So just took abit of my time to write abt everyone's common topic. LOVE:) The gd things that come along with having love in your life,sometimes acts as a double edged sword,as it could easily bring one's spirits down as easy as bringing it up to make u feel on the top of the world..But for me,i felt that the pain of loving makes love more precious. From past experiences,nt only from me..but also my closer frens who told me of their r/s matters,i came to realise that pple show a stark contrast to who dey are when they are so called love struck.I know this cos I'm one of them.U will start seeing pple with determined minds and seemingly unbreakable minds being unlocked upon interacting with those they found the special bonds with.On the other hand,u could c pple becoming from being the shyest boy in town to one who is amazingly being able to stand on his own and display a never-witnessed before charisma.This is not 'wayang' but rather a fair move in the complexed love arena..
Well,Love is a complicating matter where all the rationals they you had previously have are being thrown away..I was in a similar postion before..where I was really hurt to the point i couldnt recognise who i was anymore.Everyday was like a torture to go by.Luckiy,i always managed to pull through such moments.haha.If love was suppose to be a bliss all the time,it wouldnt be love anyway..
Too late le! I love you!

Memories..

HELLO!

Now being in NS, i had so much time to realise that there were times before enlistment that i did not really make full use of the chances and opportunities i had in the past to be happy..
(Sorry if this is an emo chat, haha)

One thing that i regreted the most was that i wasnt that sociable and active in my secondary school life. Life was like going to school, going home to play computer,going to school, going home...Well, I was a hardcore mapler during that time.(Imagining playing maple 10hrs a day)I was really screwed up when it comes to my mind now..really. Besides.. I was freaking fat and everytime i look at the mirror, i felt really ashamed that I was from NCC.lol!Mostly of my fats must come from the daily spammings of supper from my overly caring mum-.-

Another thing was that i did not join a singing competition in my entire schoollife..Singing was like a favourite pastime and i always singg in my bathroom til my parents pull their hair out.LOL.but my dad praise me before okay.. haha.There is another reason why i want to sing so much.Alan and yy u shud noe y..LOL. However, i have not went karaoke with my friends for a long time..Hopefully after NDP, we will be able to have fun again together!

Lastly,I just miss my crush and i shud have done more:(

IM TIRED! Cya!

Since the last time that I saw your pretty face A thousand lies have made me colder And I don't think I can look at this the same

Life in NS..

Well..where i can i start from..My life in NS has its ups and downs,but i must say my life of first 2 months in BMT was a real challenge and it gave me fresh insights to life. Before i was enlisted on 14th April, i took everything for granted..my freedom,my friends,my parents.However, everything really changed when i was first issued my big black duffle bag as I stepped into the rocky hill compound. The harsh reality of 'Shit! I'm in this trap for the next 2 years' really kicks in..Then, I was only filled with anxiety rather then hopefulness for what is going to happen in the next 2 months.

I'm not going to describe all the BMT times that i had..But i will want to mention the best times of it. Firstly,I enjoy the company of all my brothers dere,especially dose in my section. Our sergeants always complain that we do not mix well with other sections, but section 4 is the most united can! We got chao keng Xiang Wei,cute boy Hanjie,complain king Leonard,section 4's own ninja van ( sell tidbits de) uncle Marcus and many more.LOL. Secondly,our platoon is so united that we even held BBQ ourselves on a weekend.haha.I had a great time picking up acorns on the floor cos we 4get buy firestarters..-.-. Thirdly, during BMT i realised who were really my best friends who texted me when I'm bored and pissed during this time..ZULU rox! After POP, i was posted to be a military policeman.slackkk!

Anw if u were wondering y i start writing a blog out of nowhere,wait for my next post.haha

My 1st blog:)

Just some personal details about myself..
My Name: Chin Sze Jun Aka Cris
Birthday: 7 Dec 1990
Best time in my life: MJC where i found most of my closest frens:)
What i am doing now: Serving my stupid time in NS as MP
What i love to do: Singing! basketball,soccer,gng out wif my frens(i miss my MJ class),driving,cooking,swimming,shopping..
What i hate to do: Get angry,fighting,GUARD duty-.-,travelling on the sea..
Who i love most: Secret:)
Who i hate most: monster.LOL!
Whose songs i love most: Cao Ge,Jay Chou,Yoga,Avril lavigne..

Anything more u want noe about me? too bad..i too lazy or free to answer u cos i in ns..haha jk!